Hey cupcakes!
Is your love life getting a bit stale? Or are you just looking for a way to get bae on the right track towards the aisle? I know the feeling.
Little things go a long way to spicen up your love life and in this period of political and economic tension, Darling, you cannot be caught sleeping on the romance watch!
Here's the thing. Contrary to popular belief Men, ( bless your darling hearts ❤️) are relatively easy to please (Yes. I know what I just said, you can stop rolling your eyes now). Where there's a will, there is a way and Ladies, you can have it down to a pat!
Here's how to do it.
1. Text him first.
There’s a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes, he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much. He might over-think it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering.
Guys like to feel affection too and we understand that. We know that if he’s really into you he will be thinking about you, so, Sending him a quick text to brighten his day and spark a good conversation is no problem at all!
2. Let him know you appreciate him.
Here's how to do it.
1. Text him first.
There’s a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes, he may not know if he’s being too pushy or texting too much. He might over-think it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering.
Guys like to feel affection too and we understand that. We know that if he’s really into you he will be thinking about you, so, Sending him a quick text to brighten his day and spark a good conversation is no problem at all!
2. Let him know you appreciate him.
Some people are more affectionate than others , I happen to fall under the not so affectionate category myself, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just remember, if a man puts a lot of effort into your relationship (as he should), he will never complain about hearing how much you appreciate him.
While he should be able to read your feelings from your actions, some guys need a more direct approach. It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Tell him how much you love him. You both are together because you love each other. Send him a text or tuck a cute little love note in his jackect or pants pockets. Get creative sweetness. Trust me, that would have an awesome effect.
3. Be affectionate.
You don’t have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you’re walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party will make him feel close to you, and that you’re proud to be with him.
When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head on her Man's chest and puts her arm around him. Men love the feeling as it gives them the sense of protecting you and this signifies that she trusts you and feels feels safe in your arms.
4. Brag about him in public.
Some girls go overboard with this — like, waaaaaay overboard. But if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the manchester united jersey he got you, or the impromptu indomie noodles he arranged when you got home from work.
It will show him that you appreciate him, and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.
5. Listen.
Women know better than anyone that listening isn’t just a passive activity. It’s an action … and it takes effort. Sometimes, a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work.
When you sit down, keep his eye contact and become genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him. It will let him know you care (even if he already does).
6. Text him when you’re out with your friends.
Weird point, but extremely helpful. While men may have epic egos, they’re also extremely fragile when it comes to the matters of the heart. They feel threatened easily, and go into an insecure shell.
I’ve heard some really bad stories about guys who are insanely jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go out with friends, especially with other guys.
While I understand the apprehension, a man should be secure enough in his relationship (and trust his girlfriend enough) to not worry every second she is out without him. Texting him when out with friends is a sure way to make him more relaxed and ease his fears of losing you to another guy.
7A. Feed his : Sexual Cravings
Experiment. Be sexy. Be bold, daring, adventurous.
Become that semi freak every guy wants in his bed. Be willing to try new things with your partner. One of the biggest reasons why couples start getting bored in bed is because of the monotony and boredom of repetition. Don't be scared to take the lead. Go out and buy yourself (and him!) something sexy and put on a show. Keep things ritzy and he’ll always be awed by you.
7B. Feed his: Food cravings.
Food truly is the best way to a man’s heart. He may say he doesn’t care if you don’t know to cook, but try cooking him a fabulous dish and he'll experience a gastronomical orgasm!
Tell him how much you love him. You both are together because you love each other. Send him a text or tuck a cute little love note in his jackect or pants pockets. Get creative sweetness. Trust me, that would have an awesome effect.
3. Be affectionate.
You don’t have to jump on him in public, but small things like taking his hand while you’re walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party will make him feel close to you, and that you’re proud to be with him.
When laying on the couch watching TV or laying in bed after a long day, it’s one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head on her Man's chest and puts her arm around him. Men love the feeling as it gives them the sense of protecting you and this signifies that she trusts you and feels feels safe in your arms.
4. Brag about him in public.
Some girls go overboard with this — like, waaaaaay overboard. But if your guy does something nice for you, it never hurts to talk about it or snap a photo of the manchester united jersey he got you, or the impromptu indomie noodles he arranged when you got home from work.
It will show him that you appreciate him, and are willing to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.
5. Listen.
Women know better than anyone that listening isn’t just a passive activity. It’s an action … and it takes effort. Sometimes, a guy has something important going on in his life, is working towards a goal, or is just stressed out about work.
When you sit down, keep his eye contact and become genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him. It will let him know you care (even if he already does).
6. Text him when you’re out with your friends.
Weird point, but extremely helpful. While men may have epic egos, they’re also extremely fragile when it comes to the matters of the heart. They feel threatened easily, and go into an insecure shell.
I’ve heard some really bad stories about guys who are insanely jealous or don’t “let” their girlfriend go out with friends, especially with other guys.
While I understand the apprehension, a man should be secure enough in his relationship (and trust his girlfriend enough) to not worry every second she is out without him. Texting him when out with friends is a sure way to make him more relaxed and ease his fears of losing you to another guy.
7A. Feed his : Sexual Cravings
Experiment. Be sexy. Be bold, daring, adventurous.
Become that semi freak every guy wants in his bed. Be willing to try new things with your partner. One of the biggest reasons why couples start getting bored in bed is because of the monotony and boredom of repetition. Don't be scared to take the lead. Go out and buy yourself (and him!) something sexy and put on a show. Keep things ritzy and he’ll always be awed by you.
7B. Feed his: Food cravings.
Food truly is the best way to a man’s heart. He may say he doesn’t care if you don’t know to cook, but try cooking him a fabulous dish and he'll experience a gastronomical orgasm!
Never fear if you aren't really much of a good cook. Engaging him in the cooking process is a sure way of gaining his appreciation, respect and approval. Not to mention that it's a great bonding moment. Keep it 30% fun and 50% sexy , regardless of the outcome you'll be sizzling a lot more than onions by the time the meal is done! Win-Win!
These little things are sure to make him (and you) mucho happier.
These little things are sure to make him (and you) mucho happier.
Xoxo
- November 27, 2016
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